Sex is so much more than fucking.
Of course, that is a wonderful way to pass some time, but many of us would prefer a bit more.
Take a tour of some nice ways to spice up your sex life.
Dildos and other insertables
This is a group of toys that can be inserted into a part of the body; usually the vagina (pussy), mouth, or anus (asshole). Some, like dildos, can be shaped like a human penis (some are available that are shaped like various animal penises). Many dildos look nothing like a penis, and are designed to deliver pleasure without resembling the male sex organ.
Butt plugs are designed to be inserted in the anus, then stay on their own. They are shaped with a narrow neck, flared top, and wide base so that the sphincter muscles close around the neck and that holds it in. Anal stimulation is something that both men and women enjoy. The most complete listing of these products is available on this site.
Strap-on fun
A strap-on harness allows you to "wear" a dildo and use it to fuck someone else. Most people think harnesses are used exclusively by women to take the "male" role. Nothing could be further from the truth. People of both sexes use strap-on harnesses to add variety and fun. Many heterosexual women wear a harness to give their male partners anal stimulation. No, you don't have to be a gay man to like anal stimulation. In fantasy sex, either partner can wear an exotic dildo (like one inspired by an animal penis) to enjoy amazingly novel sex. No matter how you use one, a strap-on does more than double your fun. You can read about how to use one as well as compare the harnesses available here.
You want to put that where?
Men and women have one important erotic zone in common: their assholes. In both sexes this area has a rich network of nerves from the genitals. Incredible sexual excitement can come from this area.
Many heterosexual men believe that only gay men enjoy anal stimulation. Nothing could be further from the truth. Many straight women know that a finger or two in their partner's ass during a blow job will drive him over the wall. If anal stimulation sounds interesting, read up on it .
